I guess this isn’t too much of a question but more of a concern. A month ago, I had a client start with me that had previously lost 100 pounds on her own. In 2010-2011, she was in optimum shape and kept it off for 3 years. She since has put on 30 pounds and contacted me to help her stop and lose. The first two weeks, she was dropping pounds and feeling great. She is NO slacker and really puts in some tough sessions with me. I’ve kept in varied, incorporating Boxing, Bosu challenges, weight training, sprinting, etc and I am SO proud of her giving her all. She turns in her dietary logs and is very specific on everything.
Here is where the problem lies. She doesn’t have the greatest support, i.e. her spouse, who she said is morbidly obese, not really wanting to make a change at this time. She tends to sabotage herself once he is eating his meals of choice and falls back into pattern. She is also training for a run on her own of 10 miles happening Oct.4, so she’s been getting some long runs in during her own time, and Yoga. She has a hairdresser that puts her down when seeing her commenting on her weight gain since last time, etc. I REALLY want to help this woman. She did so well on her own and I can see is really hurting and trying to be consistent but is being pulled in different directions. She said she plans to stay with me training, right now she’s been doing 3 days a week and I don’t want to see her regress. I guess I just want to keep it intense for her but don’t know how to keep her from slipping on her own and I am worried for her. She recovered from Back Surgery 3 years ago as well and really is trying.
Sorry so lengthy and no real question, guess I just feel like any input may help.
Sounds like you are doing a great job at just motivating her and supporting her–and that’s what she needs right now (the intensity should be based on her abilities, and ultimately it will be her diet that results in the greatest change to her weight loss). In addition, I would suggest you also keep educating her on the benefits of a healthy diet and exercise and the role they play in disease prevention. You play a key role in helping her to keep healthy behaviors such as exercise a part of her daily life.
Do you know the reasons for her gaining the weight back? Was it her lack of support from her husband? It could provide you with clues to what is really going on with her. Her environment (lack of support from her husband) will definitely play a role in her success. Ultimately, she will be responsible for her own behavior and her goals will only be met if she is ready to make the changes herself.
The best thing to do is support her and her goals, be positive, and be there for her 100%. Good luck to both of you…