I guess this isn’t too much of a question but more of a concern. A month ago, I had a client start with me that had previously lost 100 pounds on her own. In 2010-2011, she was in optimum shape and kept it off for 3 years. She since has put on 30 pounds and contacted me to help her stop and lose. The first two weeks, she was dropping pounds and feeling great. She is NO slacker and really puts in some tough sessions with me. I’ve kept in varied, incorporating Boxing, Bosu challenges, weight training, sprinting, etc and I am SO proud of her giving her all. She turns in her dietary logs and is very specific on everything.
Here is where the problem lies. She doesn’t have the greatest support, i.e. her spouse, who she said is morbidly obese, not really wanting to make a change at this time. She tends to sabotage herself once he is eating his meals of choice and falls back into pattern. She is also training for a run on her own of 10 miles happening Oct.4, so she’s been getting some long runs in during her own time, and Yoga. She has a hairdresser that puts her down when seeing her commenting on her weight gain since last time, etc. I REALLY want to help this woman. She did so well on her own and I can see is really hurting and trying to be consistent but is being pulled in different directions. She said she plans to stay with me training, right now she’s been doing 3 days a week and I don’t want to see her regress. I guess I just want to keep it intense for her but don’t know how to keep her from slipping on her own and I am worried for her. She recovered from Back Surgery 3 years ago as well and really is trying.
Sorry so lengthy and no real question, guess I just feel like any input may help.
Your doing great! Stay positive when you are around her as I’m sure your doing. She needs you so much right now. Have her practice positive imaging and positive self talk. Be her rock and her constant. She knows how important you are in her life! You are more than a trainer with some people. Stay in it with her. The more encouragement the better and both of your examples will hopefully shine through to her husband. Invite him to come watch or participate for free (but go easy on him if he actually comes). And don’t stop inviting him and telling him how important his life is too and how much better it would be if he was healthier and stronger (but word it in a way he doesn’t know your talking about his obesity and that her just thinks you think he is awesome and could do so much more with a little less weight….be creative) Some people need that friendly push!
Awesome job changing lives! Doesn’t it feel so good!
In good health,