This question may be a little out of place here but, where else can I get such real answers from such real professionals. I have been having a very emotional day today as I am getting married next week (so after I post this I am logging off for the day.) I really would like to know how those of you who are married, handle dividing your time with your work and your spouse? I love her and I love my work, and I don’t wish either of them to get neglected.
Congratulations on your upcoming marriage. I wish you well and happy.
I believe the very fact that you are asking yourself (and others) this question already holds the promise of an answer. If you put that question also to her and keep good lines of communication open at all times, you will have success in all the areas that you love. Particularly at the beginning of a relationship, we tend to agree too quickly to the other person’s request when we really do not want them to do it (because we love him/her) but that can build up silent resentment which in turn can lead to an unexpected eruption.
Good luck to both of you.